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Blogger VS WordPress.com – Heres the Scoop

In Are You Curious About?, Friendship, Humor/Fun, If Walls Could Talk, Inspirational and Love Quotes, Keep the Love, Latest Headline Flash, Love Found, Love Lost, Relationships, Sexual Health, The Heart of the Matter, Unconscious mind on July 24, 2008 at 6:06 pm

You probably have noticed that I have not been posting here lately, well heres the scoop.

When I decided to start blogging, I was green…green…green. I tried a couple of other routes that I really wasn’t happy with before settling on blogging, but then where to put my blog became the pressing subject.

I came here to WordPress.com, and wee hee, I was having a ball and quickly fell in love. It didn’t take me long to realize that I had to visit other blogs and Social Networking sites, if I wanted other people to discover my new found avenue of expression, and when I did I began to notice that most of them were able to do all kinds of cool things on their blogs that I wasn’t able to do, and soon the jealousy started to set in.

So like a cheating spouse that still loves their partner, but wants to explore exciting new fantasies that their partner won’t engage in, I was quickly off exploring some more, and decided to have an affair with Blogger.com, not being ready to dish out the money just yet on the glitz and glamour of a paid site.

Woo hoo, all kinds of opportunities for the site started coming to life that my old partner blog wouldn’t allow me to explore…not without a price that is, and my fantasies started coming alive! Why should I start paying after all, when I could so easily get my fantasies realized for free somewhere else.

So, I started a blog there, but published the same articles, so that I could test to see which one all of my friends liked better.

WordPress.com has a great directory that pulls people into this site without much effort, and most of the traffic to this site comes from there. With Blogger.com, I had to work a lot harder for my friends to come visit, but they soon started swarming in, and it didn’t take long before it was the favorite place for them to go.

Needless to say, I have been spending less and less time with my old partner blog (this one), and I have only been posting to and playing with my new found love. I will probably be filing for divorce soon.

I understand that when there is a divorce that some of the friends go with one partner, and some of them go with the other, but here’s the deal…I want all my friends to come visit me where I spend all my time, so I don’t have to keep coming over here to see them. What with the price of gas and all.

So here is my forwarding address: Open Your Heart to the Love

And don’t forget to mark the new address in your little black book, and for those that like to have a special invitation every time I update the place, don’t forget to subscribe!

And here are some of the great things you have been missing:

“Puppet on a String” Who Is Controlling Your Strings?

Guaranteed Road to Ultimate Beauty

Do Men Fake Orgasm? The Results Are In

Helen Fisher – Romantic Love VS Sex

Fear of Love and Denial

Female Bullies – When Women Get Down and Dirty

Check it out! Come see how I fixed up the place.

And don’t forget to stop by my other blog: Valley of the Subconscious

Scroll of Wisdom

In Inspirational and Love Quotes, Keep the Love, Relationships, The Heart of the Matter on May 9, 2008 at 2:43 pm

Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.

Dalai Lama

We can never obtain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.

Dalai Lama

If you don’t love yourself, you cannot love others. You will not be able to love others. If you have no compassion for yourself then you are not able of developing compassion for others.

Dalai Lama

“Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That’s why it’s a comfort to go hand in hand.”

Emily Kimbrough

“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.” –

Rollo May

“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power. “
~ Alan Cohen~

People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”
~Joseph Fort Newton~

Inspirational Quotes

In Friendship, Inspirational and Love Quotes, Keep the Love, Relationships, The Heart of the Matter on April 22, 2008 at 9:08 pm

“People are, if anything, more touchy about being thought silly than they are about being thought unjust.”

E. B. White

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“Never let yesterday’s disappointments overshadow tomorrow’s dreams.”

Unknown

“Love is not blind — it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.”

Rabbi J. Gordon

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“When I first met you I was afraid to like you, now that I like you I’m afraid to love you, now that I love you I’m afraid to lose you.”

Unknown

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“I knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh, but I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry.”

Unknown

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“Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.”

Paul Boese

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“If you have one eye on yesterday, and one eye on tomorrow, you’re going to be cockeyed today”

Author Unknown

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When you believe

I’ll be happy when…

You are deferring happiness

Author Unknown

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“We are the only beings on the planet who lead such rich internal lives that it’s not the events that matter most to us, but rather, it’s how we interpret those events that will determine how we think about ourselves and how we will act in the future.”

Anthony Robbins

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“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others”

Anthony Robbins

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“The truth is that we can learn to condition our minds, bodies, and emotions to link pain or pleasure to whatever we choose. By changing what we link pain and pleasure to, we will instantly change our behaviors.”

Anthony Robbins

Inspirational and Love Quotes

In Inspirational and Love Quotes, Keep the Love, Love Found, Relationships on April 20, 2008 at 9:32 pm

“Love is happiness given back and forth”

~Author: Unknown~

“Nothing is more beautiful,

than you wearing nothing but

the moonlight and my kisses”

~Author: unknown~

What lies behind us,

and what lies before us

are tiny matters

compared to what lies within us.

~ by Ralph Waldo Emerson ~

When you love someone,

all your saved-up wishes

start coming out.

~ by Elizabeth Bowen (1899-1973) ~

No man is truly married

until he understands

every word his wife is NOT saying.

~ Author: unknown ~

You will never know true happiness

until you have truly loved,

and you will never understand

what pain really is

until you have lost it.

~ by Anonymous ~

True love cannot be found where it truly does not exist,

Nor can it be hidden where it truly does.

~ by Anonymous ~

Love is like a friendship caught on fire.

In the beginning a flame, very pretty,

Often hot and fierce,

But still only light and flickering.

As love grows older,

Our hearts mature

And our love becomes as coals,

Deep-burning and unquenchable.

~ by Bruce Lee ~

Your voice makes me tremble inside

And your smile is an invitation

For my imagination to go wild.

~ by Anonymous ~

Love has no opposite

~Author: unknown~

Time and time again

I realize that relationships

Both romantic and non-romantic alike

Act as a mirror

For my potential areas of growth

~by: James Arthur Ray~

I have but two emotions

Love and Fear

~A Course in Miracles~

The only journey worth undertaking

Is the journey into one’s own self

~Author: unknown~

Don’t exchange what you want most for

What you want at the moment

~Renee Switzer~

True friendships

Are not

Easily undone

Once you overcome

Fear of “self”

Then nothing can thwart you

And you’ll see

There is no way to proceed except

Forward

~Author: unknown~

Life is a gift

Everything else is a decision

~Author: unknown~

To love a person is to learn the song

That is in their heart,

And to sing it to them

When they have forgotten.

~ by Anonymous ~

To get the full value of joy

You must have someone to divide it with.

~ by Mark Twain ~

My bounty is as boundless as the sea,

My love as deep;

The more I give to thee

The more I have,

For both are infinite.

~ by William Shakespeare ~

Love is that condition in which

The happiness of another person

Is essential to your own.

~ by Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land ~

I only wish to be the fountain of love

From which you drink,

Every drop promising eternal passion.

~ by Unknown Author ~

A part of you has grown in me.

And so you see, it’s you and me

Together forever and never apart,

Maybe in distance, but never in heart.

~ by Anonymous ~

I sought for Love

But Love ran away from me.

I sought my Soul

But my Soul I couldn’t see.

Then I sought You,

And I found all three.

~ by Unknown Author ~

The best feelings are those that

Have no words to describe them….

~ by Michelle Hammersley ~